Myths and Facts About People With Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities

North Star Oregon • June 19, 2024

Myths and Facts About People With Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities

North Star Oregon provides disability support services in Oregon - specifically, in-home attendant care and day support activities to people with intellectual and developmental disabilities (I/DD). As care providers, we sometimes need to educate family and friends about these disabilities, since there are many misconceptions surrounding them.

Today, we’ll dispel some myths about intellectual and developmental disabilities and provide some much-needed facts about them. You may learn that what you thought you knew isn’t actually true!

MYTH: People with intellectual and developmental disabilities cannot attend college.

FACT: You may be wondering, can people with intellectual disabilities go to college? The answer is yes! There are college-level programs for people with I/DD who were able to graduate from high school. In Oregon, there’s one such program, and it’s at Portland State University. Their Career and Community Studies major is a four-year certificate program that provides an inclusive college experience for students with I/DD. 

In addition to services that all PSU students receive, Career and Community Studies students also receive individualized support with academics, employment, and campus life. If you’re looking for an inclusive college in Oregon, PSU may be your best bet.

MYTH: Most people with I/DD have a severe intellectual disability.

FACT: According to the Special Olympics, 85% of people with an intellectual disability have a mild one. This means that most people with I/DD are able to get jobs, go to school, and engage with their communities. Even those with more severe intellectual disabilities are able to excel in life in their own ways.

 MYTH: Developmental disabilities are rare.

FACTS: Are developmental disabilities rare? You may be surprised to know that they’re actually quite common. Over six million people in the United States experience some form of developmental disability. These disabilities are becoming more prevalent as autism is being recognized in more people. As of 2008, one in six children are known to have some form of developmental disability, but the numbers have likely gone up since then. In fact, it’s possible that you know someone with one of these disabilities!

MYTH: People with intellectual and developmental disabilities receive better healthcare than the general population.

FACT: People with I/DD actually receive worse healthcare than most people - or worse, none at all. It’s no wonder, then, that people with intellectual and developmental disabilities have a shorter life expectancy than most Americans. Unfortunately, the average lifespan of someone living with I/DD is 20 years shorter than that of the general population. 

That being said, people with I/DD are living longer now than they ever have before, which is great news. As healthcare providers are better able to address the needs of people with I/DD, we can expect them to live even longer lives in the future.


MYTH: Inclusion can have negative effects on people without I/DD.

FACT: Integrating people with I/DD into activities neurotypical people participate in, like school and sports, can have positive effects on everyone. Inclusivity breaks down barriers to accessing certain life experiences, as there aren’t always programs specifically for people with I/DD. 

Being around people with disabilities can increase compassion for others. We live in a world that simply doesn’t make time for people who process things more slowly, and introducing neurotypical people to those with I/DD can help them become more patient. It also helps neurotypical people see things from the perspective of those who aren’t exactly like them. This can help them become better friends and even better leaders. 

MYTH: People with intellectual and developmental disabilities cannot get married or have children.

FACT: People with I/DD can get married. However, it’s more complicated for people with disabilities to get married than it is for the general population. That’s because people are at risk of losing their government benefits if they choose to marry someone. Many people with disabilities rely on these benefits to live and care for themselves, so this is one barrier to marriage that disability advocates are working to overcome.

Can people with disabilities have children, though? Absolutely! People with intellectual and developmental disabilities can become fantastic parents, just like anyone else. Oftentimes, their fertility is not affected by their disabilities. In addition, living with I/DD does not mean a person’s child will, too. For the best outcomes, all parents - with disabilities or without - should have ample community support.


Disability Support Services In Corvallis, Oregon

If you want to learn more about people with intellectual or developmental disabilities, try to get involved with an organization that serves them. Working with them can be a rewarding experience, and you may be surprised by how much they can teach you. North Star Oregon serves people with I/DD through disability support services such as Day Support Activities and In-Home Attendant Care in the mid-Willamette Valley. We currently serve Benton, Linn, Marion, and Polk Counties. Contact us today to learn how you can get involved!

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If you're a parent caring for your adult child with intellectual or developmental disabilities in your home, there's a tax provision you need to know about. IRS Notice 2014-7 allows parents employed as in-home caregivers to exclude qualifying Medicaid waiver payments from their federal income taxes—potentially saving thousands of dollars per year. At North Star Oregon, we're committed to helping our parent-employees understand and access this benefit. Here's what you need to know. What Is IRS Notice 2014-7? In 2014, the IRS extended "difficulty of care" tax treatment—originally designed for foster parents—to caregivers providing services under Medicaid Home and Community-Based Services waiver programs. This means parents who work for disability services providers like North Star can exclude certain payments from their taxable income. The key word is certain. Not all services qualify, and the rules are specific. Which Services Qualify? In-home Attendant Care services qualify when you provide care to your child in the home you share together. This includes: Assistance with bathing, dressing, toileting, and mobility Meal preparation and feeding assistance Medication reminders Light housekeeping in shared living areas Shopping and transportation for medical appointments or essential needs Other activities of daily living performed in the shared home The Critical Requirements To qualify for the tax exclusion, you must meet ALL of these conditions: You and your child live together full-time in the same home Your child receives services under Oregon's Medicaid waiver program (K Plan or 1915(c) waivers through ODDS) You provide in-home attendant care services as described in their plan of care You're paid through the Medicaid waiver program for these specific services The "same home" requirement is strict. This means: You share the same primary residence You don't maintain a separate home where you spend weekends or holidays You can document the shared living arrangement with matching addresses on IDs, utility bills, etc. What This Means for Your Taxes The Income Tax Exclusion Qualifying Medicaid waiver payments are excluded from federal gross income. This means you don't pay federal income tax on them. However, you still pay Social Security and Medicare taxes (FICA). When North Star is your employer (as opposed to a consumer-directed arrangement), FICA applies even to excludable income. This is actually beneficial—it means you're earning Social Security credits toward your retirement benefits. Your W-2 Will Look Different Your W-2 from North Star will show: Box 1 (Wages): Only your taxable wages (training, PTO, any non-qualifying services)—excludable attendant care is removed Box 12 Code II: The amount of excluded Medicaid waiver payments Boxes 3 & 5 (Social Security/Medicare wages): ALL your wages including excludable payments Boxes 4 & 6: The FICA taxes actually withheld The fact that Box 1 is smaller than Boxes 3/5 is correct and expected. The Earned Income Tax Credit Opportunity Here's where it gets interesting. A 2019 Tax Court case (Feigh v. Commissioner) ruled that you can have your cake and eat it too: the IRS now allows you to count excluded income toward earned income tax credits (EITC) and additional child tax credit (ACTC) while still excluding it from taxable income. This "double benefit" can be worth thousands of dollars for qualifying families. You'll want to work with a tax professional to claim this correctly. What You Need to Do If you think you qualify, here's your action plan: Step 1: Verify Your Eligibility Do you and your child live together full-time? Does your child receive services under Oregon's Medicaid waiver program? Are you providing in-home attendant care (not DSA)? Step 2: Contact North Star's Payroll Team We'll provide you with: An attestation form to complete under penalties of perjury Documentation requirements (matching addresses, etc.) Information about how your W-2 will be adjusted Step 3: Keep Records Maintain proof of shared residence Keep copies of your signed attestation Track which hours are attendant care vs. other services Step 4: Work With a Tax Professional This is complex tax law. We strongly recommend working with a qualified tax preparer who understands Notice 2014-7, especially if you want to claim EITC benefits. What Doesn't Qualify Be clear about what payments cannot be excluded: Any community-based services provided outside your shared home Training hours or administrative time Paid time off or vacation pay Respite care provided outside your shared home Any private payments not from Medicaid waiver programs Common Questions Q: Can I apply this to previous years? A: Yes, you can file amended returns for open tax years (generally the past 3 years). Consult a tax professional. Q: What if my child moves out temporarily? A: You must notify North Star immediately if living arrangements change. The exclusion applies only during periods of shared residence. Q: Does this affect my Social Security retirement benefits? A: No. When North Star is your employer, FICA taxes continue to apply, so you're earning Social Security credits normally. Q: What if I provide multiple types of services to my child? A: We'll track your hours separately. Only in-home attendant care hours qualify for exclusion. Any services provided outside the home or other non-qualifying services remain taxable. Q: Do I still need to report this income anywhere? A: Yes. It appears on your W-2 in Box 12 Code II, and you'll report it on your tax return with an offsetting adjustment on Schedule 1. We believe in supporting the families who provide extraordinary care to their loved ones with disabilities. Helping you access this tax benefit is part of that commitment. If you're a parent-employee providing in-home care to your child and you think you might qualify, please reach out to our payroll team. We're here to help you navigate this process and ensure you receive the tax treatment you're entitled to under the law.
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